Lets talk about it. Ive heard some complaints that this place sucks. Or is shit or trash. I have always put as much time into this forum as i can. But if you feel we haven't done enough id like to figure out a way to make it better. Im willing to try harder for you.
But lets air our grievance's here as a community. A therapy thread. What is it you all need from us the staff. Or maybe you have issues with members? Maybe the staff dosnt do enough?
What can we do better to help you feel more comfortable here? Are there members here that are trolling or ruing threads? Do i need to ask certain members to chill out? I dont see everything here. Im often on twitter trying to generate discussion there for our twitter feed. Supporting the Chargers etc.
Suggestions? Should we ban all negative talk about the owners? Is that it? Are peoples differences so apparent that they cant co exist and debate each other? I happen to think when someone brings up how shitty a forum is they are usually just intolerant of other peoples opinions and stances.
I could always force everyone here to think one way. And if they dont they can leave or i can ban them. But to me that just sounds exactly like what is so fucked up in our own country these days. Nobody is tolerant of anyone anymore. We are completely divided. And its starting to happen here.
Im also willing to step down...if one of you who thinks they can run the forum better wants to step in and do that. Im willing to do whats best for this community.
Like i said if there are threads that need locked....or if you want us mods to start deleting posts withing threads i can bring on a couple more mods to help me babysit every thread. Because its hard to micromanage everyone here....while also trying to live our lives. I have kids. Im a single father with 100% custody. I run the show. I have a lot on my plate.
So i can add a mod or 2 to help....but also what would really help us??? Is this community just trying to get along. Maybe working out things yourselves. Communicate with each other in possibly a more assertive manner and not so aggressive. Maybe less passive aggressive like im doing now.
I think its important to remember why it is members are so emotional right now. Yes its a culmination of things. And Bosa dosnt help. But ultimately the blame wiil always go to the top.
IT WILL ALWAYS GO TO THE TOP WHEN WE ARE NOT WINNING!!!!!!!
Thats the issue. We are not winning. If we were?? None of this BS would be happening. Nobody would be complaining and emotional.
But we are losers first. And thats enough to piss off everyone to the point that anything dramatic relating to the Chargers is magnified by 1000. Mix in a year of wondering if the team will stay? People are on edge.
Try to be understanding. Compassionate Charger fans. Times have been tough. People deal with it differently.
But lets air our grievance's here as a community. A therapy thread. What is it you all need from us the staff. Or maybe you have issues with members? Maybe the staff dosnt do enough?
What can we do better to help you feel more comfortable here? Are there members here that are trolling or ruing threads? Do i need to ask certain members to chill out? I dont see everything here. Im often on twitter trying to generate discussion there for our twitter feed. Supporting the Chargers etc.
Suggestions? Should we ban all negative talk about the owners? Is that it? Are peoples differences so apparent that they cant co exist and debate each other? I happen to think when someone brings up how shitty a forum is they are usually just intolerant of other peoples opinions and stances.
I could always force everyone here to think one way. And if they dont they can leave or i can ban them. But to me that just sounds exactly like what is so fucked up in our own country these days. Nobody is tolerant of anyone anymore. We are completely divided. And its starting to happen here.
Im also willing to step down...if one of you who thinks they can run the forum better wants to step in and do that. Im willing to do whats best for this community.
Like i said if there are threads that need locked....or if you want us mods to start deleting posts withing threads i can bring on a couple more mods to help me babysit every thread. Because its hard to micromanage everyone here....while also trying to live our lives. I have kids. Im a single father with 100% custody. I run the show. I have a lot on my plate.
So i can add a mod or 2 to help....but also what would really help us??? Is this community just trying to get along. Maybe working out things yourselves. Communicate with each other in possibly a more assertive manner and not so aggressive. Maybe less passive aggressive like im doing now.
I think its important to remember why it is members are so emotional right now. Yes its a culmination of things. And Bosa dosnt help. But ultimately the blame wiil always go to the top.
IT WILL ALWAYS GO TO THE TOP WHEN WE ARE NOT WINNING!!!!!!!
Thats the issue. We are not winning. If we were?? None of this BS would be happening. Nobody would be complaining and emotional.
But we are losers first. And thats enough to piss off everyone to the point that anything dramatic relating to the Chargers is magnified by 1000. Mix in a year of wondering if the team will stay? People are on edge.
Try to be understanding. Compassionate Charger fans. Times have been tough. People deal with it differently.
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